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We’ve all seen it; “Primarily based on a real story” on the finish of a film that drew us in and saved us engaged for an hour or extra. Typically, a montage of photographs and actual life particulars observe.
A Hallmark film, sharing each the acquainted phrase and photographs — even that includes a cameo from the real-life couple — did its half to vary the lives of two Bradford residents.
John Fedak watched the film, titled As soon as Upon a Christmas Miracle, through the vacation season final yr.
“Final yr, I used to be sitting round and watching Hallmark Films, and there was a film the place a woman wanted a liver transplant from a dwelling donor,” Fedak defined. He famous the story included the woman assembly her donor and the 2 falling in love. “On the finish, it stated it was primarily based on a real story, and that they had been married. I believed, ‘Wow, you possibly can donate a part of your liver as a dwelling particular person.’ I had by no means considered that earlier than, as a result of it’s not one thing that individuals speak about. It’s not a widely known factor. It stayed in my head. I believed, ‘That’s cool. If I may do this, I might.’”
The story relies on the lifetime of Illinois native Heather Krueger and Chris Dempsey, a Marine Corps vet who overheard Krueger’s cousin point out her want for a liver transplant. Dempsey was a match and helped arrange a fundraiser to assist with Krueger’s medical prices, the place he stated he realized she was somebody he may spend his life with.
In contrast to the character within the Hallmark film, who met her donor after he had dedicated to the donation, Fedak is aware of Ross Neidich. They stay inside miles of one another and attend the identical church. Fedak even knew, earlier than the method to find out his eligibility to grow to be a donor, that he and Neidich have one vital consider widespread.
“I knew that getting into, that there was a better probability that I wouldn’t have the ability to donate to Ross.
I knew that Ross and my blood sort had been the identical, however I additionally know that there’s extra than simply blood sort that determines match,” Fedak stated. “I used to be type of stunned that we had been truly matches. I hoped we had been matches, however I used to be stunned that we had been. The chance that there’s an individual that lives inside three miles of you that’s a match for you, that we all know and go to church with — it was shock.
“They do speak about the truth that it’s important to have this and this and this, being a match to somebody is extra concerned.”
Fedak defined that he had talked the concept over along with his spouse and daughter earlier than shifting ahead. He additionally has a son, who was in Pittsburgh on the time. As soon as his household was on board, the precise course of to find out eligibility started.
Testing to grow to be an organ donor includes a number of visits and extra invasive testing than a standard go to to 1’s major care doctor. Fedak stated the staff talked to him about the potential of uncovering a problem along with his well being that he was not conscious of, which was one thing many individuals might not even consider when opting to donate an organ.
“Autoimmune, viral, you title it and so they test you for it,” Fedak stated. “There are issues I realized about me that I had no clue of.”
One factor that Fedak was sure of was his need to assist somebody — even when it couldn’t be the person he knew.
“I stated, ‘If I’m not a match for Ross, I’m prone to be a match for another person within the space, there are lots of people that want kidneys.’ The physician stated, ‘Nicely that’s potential,’” Fedak stated. “I stated that, if I’m a match for another person, I nonetheless need to donate my kidney.”
The donation staff requested Fedak if he needed to be a part of a sequence of donation, if he was not a match for Neidich. This was not one thing Fedak was conversant in, so that they defined it was a course of the place an individual keen to donate just isn’t a match for the meant recipient (buddy or beloved one). As an alternative, they donate to somebody, and somebody near that particular person donates to a different, till there’s a chain of donations that lead again to the unique meant recipient.
“I had by no means heard of that earlier than,” Fedak stated. “I’ve by no means seen that publicized. Dwelling donation is infrequently publicized.”
The process occurred Thursday at Hamot Medical Heart in Erie. Fedak was doing effectively Thursday night, in line with relations.
Fedak stated he anticipated to be out of the hospital by Saturday or Monday on the newest. His recuperation consists of no lifting or pulling for 4 to 6 weeks after which a gradual return to his regular actions and schedule.
Fedak hopes that by sharing his story, folks could have a greater understanding of stay organ donation.
“I wish to see folks be taught extra about it, take extra of an curiosity in it and, probably, see extra people who find themselves in a position to donate,” he stated.
Fedak famous that, whereas it’s potential to get a kidney from a non-living donor, the kidney has been topic to trauma.
“A dwelling donor on this case is a lot extra profitable in a transplant than a kidney coming from somebody who’s deceased,” Fedak stated. “Dwelling donors are extraordinarily vital to assist somebody who wants a kidney to stay.
“There are such a lot of folks in our space that want a kidney, the extra folks we have now which are keen to donate, who’re bodily in a position to donate, the higher it’s for folks in our space.”
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